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Fathers and Families® improves the lives of children and strengthens society by protecting the child’s right to the love and care of both parents after separation or divorce. We seek better lives for children through family court reform that establishes equal rights and responsibilities for fathers and mothers.
 

Our Issues/What We're Doing

Fathers and Families promotes an ambitious legislative agenda and has helped pass family court reform legislation in over two dozen states. Click the tabs to view information about Fathers and Families’ current and recent legislative projects. To learn more about our legislative and other achievements, click here.

Tragically, after divorce or separation, one parent is often driven to the margins of his or her children's lives. Fathers and Families' central mission is to protect children’s right to the love and care of both parents. To help accomplish this, we:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Fathers and Families believes that children of divorce or separation need to be supported both emotionally and financially. We seek fair, reasonable child support guidelines and an end to rampant child support enforcement abuses. Our achievements in this area include:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Few family law cases are as heartbreaking as those involving Parental Alienation, where one parent has turned his or her children against the other parent, destroying the loving bonds the children and the target parent once enjoyed. PA is a common, well-documented phenomenon that is the subject of numerous studies and articles in peer-reviewed scholarly journals. Sadly, Fathers and Families receives thousands of heart-wrenching calls and letters from targeted parents. Both mothers and fathers can be perpetrators of Parental Alienation, but the true victims are always the children.

To help battle against Parental Alienation, Fathers and Families has:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Fathers and Families believes that alimony is sometimes appropriate, such as in cases where one spouse has significantly sacrificed his or her earning ability in order to care for children. However, family courts are rife with abuses and injustices in awarding alimony/spousal support and in dividing divorcing couples' assets.

To help protect family breadwinners and high earners, we:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Tens of thousands of men have been wrongly assigned paternity and are compelled by law to pay years of child support for children whom DNA tests have shown are not theirs. In many cases, the men have had little or no contact with the children they're required to support, and some had no idea they were "fathers" until their wages were garnished for child support. To help solve this problem, Fathers and Families:

  • Helped Introduce CA SB 375 to Help Defrauded Fathers
  • Helped Introduce CA SB 377 to Protect Minors from Paternity Fraud 
  • Helped pass AB 252 and SB 1333 to allow CA child support obligors to use DNA evidence to set aside false paternity judgments

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Fathers and Families believes that all victims of abuse deserve aid and protection from our family court system. Unfortunately, as prominent members of the Family Law Executive Committee of the State Bar of California and many family law professionals have noted, false claims of abuse are frequently and effectively used as custody maneuvers in divorces by unscrupulous attorneys and litigants. To help combat this problem, Fathers and Families:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Fathers and Families believes that all litigants should be treated fairly in family court, regardless of gender. We also oppose the adversarial nature of the family court system and support Collaborative Law and other ways to reduce unnecessary conflict and litigation. To these ends, Father and Families:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Shared Parenting Issue Comes to Canadian TV

April 17th, 2013 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

Here’s an important alert from our good friends in the Shared Parenting movement to the north.  Paulette Macdonald, et al, have been battling for equal parental rights in Canada for many years.  This message lets people know about a Read the rest

UK: More Married Men DV Victims Than Married Women

April 15th, 2013 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

More married men (2.3 per cent) suffered from partner abuse last year than married women, according to the latest British Crime Survey. Yet help is still much harder to find for men.

See here (The Independent, 4/14/13)?  … Read the rest

Salon.com Imagines Collective Child Care; Doesn’t Mention Who That Might Be

April 14th, 2013 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

Every group has at least one thing in common with every other group.  Whatever its organizing principle, every group has as its first and foremost goal its own self-perpetuation.  So the ACLU organizes around the principle of constitutional rights … Read the rest

Salon.com in Running for Year’s Worst Article

April 12th, 2013 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

I don’t give out awards, but maybe I should.  There are some people out there doing great things, sometimes alone.  There’s a guy in North Dakota who’s taken on the whole apparatus of state government and gotten passed, almost single-handedly, … Read the rest

Florida Moves Toward Reform of Alimony Law

April 11th, 2013 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

The State of Florida may be poised to take sensible action on its long-outdated alimony laws.  Read about it here (San Francisco Chronicle, 4/4/13).

A bill recently passed the Florida Senate by a vote of 29 – … Read the rest

Media Still Ignorant About Kelly Rutherford/Daniel Giersch Case

April 10th, 2013 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

It’s beginning to look like the news media just can’t wrap their little minds around the idea that a mother, particularly a pretty blond one, can be an awful parent.  We’ve been following the saga of marginal TV actress … Read the rest

Mom ‘Unnerved’ By Fearfulness of Child Protective Services

April 8th, 2013 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

Hard on the heels of yesterday’s post about a young British man whose career was destroyed by a single allegation of sexual impropriety with a six year old boy at his place of employment, a daycare center, comes this.Read the rest

England: False Accusation Destroy’s Dad’s Career in Childcare

April 7th, 2013 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

This is the good news (The Guardian, 4/5/13).  Once you’ve read the article you might wonder what I’ve been smoking, but I’m as right-headed as I ever am.  Seriously, the events described in the article, horrible as … Read the rest

Shared Parenting Bill Before Vermont Legislature

April 5th, 2013 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

Things are heating up in Vermont.  The Green Mountain State is one of only a few that require family judges to give sole parenting to one parent unless both parents agree to a different arrangement.  That of course gives … Read the rest

Does Harsh Child Support Enforcement Work?

April 4th, 2013 by Ned Holstein, MD, MS, Founder and Chairman of the Board
Ned Holstein
Ned Holstein, MD, MS
Founder &
Chair of the Board

(Third in a Series on Child Support)

The United States has spent large amounts of money and employed draconian tactics to collect child support for almost 25 years. Have … Read the rest