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Fathers and Families® improves the lives of children and strengthens society by protecting the child’s right to the love and care of both parents after separation or divorce. We seek better lives for children through family court reform that establishes equal rights and responsibilities for fathers and mothers.
 

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Fathers and Families promotes an ambitious legislative agenda and has helped pass family court reform legislation in over two dozen states. Click the tabs to view information about Fathers and Families’ current and recent legislative projects. To learn more about our legislative and other achievements, click here.

Tragically, after divorce or separation, one parent is often driven to the margins of his or her children's lives. Fathers and Families' central mission is to protect children’s right to the love and care of both parents. To help accomplish this, we:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Fathers and Families believes that children of divorce or separation need to be supported both emotionally and financially. We seek fair, reasonable child support guidelines and an end to rampant child support enforcement abuses. Our achievements in this area include:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Few family law cases are as heartbreaking as those involving Parental Alienation, where one parent has turned his or her children against the other parent, destroying the loving bonds the children and the target parent once enjoyed. PA is a common, well-documented phenomenon that is the subject of numerous studies and articles in peer-reviewed scholarly journals. Sadly, Fathers and Families receives thousands of heart-wrenching calls and letters from targeted parents. Both mothers and fathers can be perpetrators of Parental Alienation, but the true victims are always the children.

To help battle against Parental Alienation, Fathers and Families has:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Fathers and Families believes that alimony is sometimes appropriate, such as in cases where one spouse has significantly sacrificed his or her earning ability in order to care for children. However, family courts are rife with abuses and injustices in awarding alimony/spousal support and in dividing divorcing couples' assets.

To help protect family breadwinners and high earners, we:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Tens of thousands of men have been wrongly assigned paternity and are compelled by law to pay years of child support for children whom DNA tests have shown are not theirs. In many cases, the men have had little or no contact with the children they're required to support, and some had no idea they were "fathers" until their wages were garnished for child support. To help solve this problem, Fathers and Families:

  • Helped Introduce CA SB 375 to Help Defrauded Fathers
  • Helped Introduce CA SB 377 to Protect Minors from Paternity Fraud 
  • Helped pass AB 252 and SB 1333 to allow CA child support obligors to use DNA evidence to set aside false paternity judgments

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Fathers and Families believes that all victims of abuse deserve aid and protection from our family court system. Unfortunately, as prominent members of the Family Law Executive Committee of the State Bar of California and many family law professionals have noted, false claims of abuse are frequently and effectively used as custody maneuvers in divorces by unscrupulous attorneys and litigants. To help combat this problem, Fathers and Families:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Fathers and Families believes that all litigants should be treated fairly in family court, regardless of gender. We also oppose the adversarial nature of the family court system and support Collaborative Law and other ways to reduce unnecessary conflict and litigation. To these ends, Father and Families:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

California Court Takes Child From Fit Father Despite Child’s Best Interests

April 25th, 2013 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

A California appellate court has found a way to avoid giving custody to yet another fit, loving father.  Here’s an article about the case (Bakersfield Californian, 4/20/13) and here’s the court’s ruling.

In truth, it’s not the court’s … Read the rest

What Happens When a Feminist’s Son is Accused of Rape

April 24th, 2013 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

There used to be a saying, a joke really, with a point to make.  My memory of it isn’t perfect, but it went something like this: a conservative is a liberal who’s just been mugged; a liberal is a … Read the rest

Social Worker: British Children’s Services ‘Stalinist’

April 22nd, 2013 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

Not long ago I did a couple of pieces on a particularly silly and out-of-touch article in Salon.com by Mary Elizabeth Williams.  In her article Williams cited with approval an MSNBC talking head, Melissa Harris-Perry, who had recently unburdened herself of … Read the rest

Florida House Bill 231 Establishes Presumption of Equally-Shared Parenting

April 21st, 2013 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

Not long ago I did a piece on House Bill 231 in Florida that just passed the House of Representatives by a landslide vote of 85 – 31.  If enacted into law, it would drastically alter alimony in the … Read the rest

Expert: British Government’s Family Law Proposal Doesn’t ‘Remotely Encourage Equal Time’

April 19th, 2013 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

This provides yet another example of why people should read this blog, and not the mainstream press, for information on everything related to family courts, child custody, the science on child well-being, etc.  The linked-to piece is by Professor … Read the rest

Indian Adoption Case Shows Supreme Court Divide on Parent’s Rights

April 18th, 2013 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

Bad facts make for bad law.  It’s an old saying around legal circles that’s proven itself correct far too often to not still be hanging around.  Put simply, when the facts of a case are heart-wrenching, judges, being only human, sometimes … Read the rest

Shared Parenting Issue Comes to Canadian TV

April 17th, 2013 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

Here’s an important alert from our good friends in the Shared Parenting movement to the north.  Paulette Macdonald, et al, have been battling for equal parental rights in Canada for many years.  This message lets people know about a Read the rest

UK: More Married Men DV Victims Than Married Women

April 15th, 2013 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

More married men (2.3 per cent) suffered from partner abuse last year than married women, according to the latest British Crime Survey. Yet help is still much harder to find for men.

See here (The Independent, 4/14/13)?  … Read the rest

Salon.com Imagines Collective Child Care; Doesn’t Mention Who That Might Be

April 14th, 2013 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

Every group has at least one thing in common with every other group.  Whatever its organizing principle, every group has as its first and foremost goal its own self-perpetuation.  So the ACLU organizes around the principle of constitutional rights … Read the rest

Salon.com in Running for Year’s Worst Article

April 12th, 2013 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

I don’t give out awards, but maybe I should.  There are some people out there doing great things, sometimes alone.  There’s a guy in North Dakota who’s taken on the whole apparatus of state government and gotten passed, almost single-handedly, … Read the rest