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Maile Metalwala Comes Home; Soldier Loses Parental Rights Because Son Was Abused While Dad Was Deployed
December 20, 2011
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Victory: Solomon Metalwala's Daughter Comes Home to Dad

Maile Metalwala
Maile Metalwala, after being reunited with her dad Solomon Metalwala on Friday.

After nearly a year, 4-year-old Maile Metalwala has at last been reunited with her dad, Solomon Metalwala.

Maile was kept from Solomon by a combination of a restraining order based on discredited domestic violence charges, and the Washington Department of Social and Health Services, who seized Maile away from her unfit mother six weeks ago and put her in foster care.

Fathers and Families' highly-publicized Campaign to Reunite Solomon Metalwala with His Daughter Maile sought to push WA DSHS and King County Superior Court to reunite Maile and Solomon as soon as possible. We thank all of our members and supporters who wrote and/or called the relevant authorities. Special thanks goes to Clay Terry, Esq., Solomon's attorney, for his determined work towards reuniting Maile with Solomon.

As Fathers and Families members and supporters are painfully aware, many children will be denied their fathers this holiday season. Thanks in part to your efforts, Maile will not be one of them.

Outrageous: Iraqi Vet Has Parental Rights Terminated Because Stepdad Abused His Son While He Was Overseas

A veteran of the Iraq war has had his parental rights terminated despite having in no way wronged his child or the mother.

Edward Glover served in the U.S. armed services and was deployed to Iraq. His wife, Michelle, gave birth to a child, E.G., in November of 2008. While Edward was serving abroad, Michelle took up with one Maliki Raheem, who had a history of domestic violence. In April, 2009, it came to the attention of the Arkansas Department of Human Services that E.G. had been severely abused by Raheem.

Edward Glover obtained emergency leave and returned home, but was sent back to Iraq 10 days later. Glover remained deployed oversees while legal proceedings played out. The ADHS took E.G. into foster care and eventually succeeded in terminating Michelle's parental rights.

The trial court, at the request of ADHS, terminated Glover's parental rights. The Court of Appeals affirmed the ruling.

How is it possible for a father without a single black mark to entirely lose his rights to a child, born during his marriage and therefore presumptively his? Apparently the reason the trial judge terminated Glover's rights is that he didn't follow the court's orders to avail himself of certain ADHS "services."

Glover was nowhere near Arkansas and therefore could not be "served" by ADHS. More importantly, the "services" ordered were clearly aimed at a parent who has abused his/her child, including anger management classes, random drug screens, "refrain from criminal or illegal activity," etc.

The state agency and four separate judges couldn't quite grasp the fact that the father hadn't abused the child.

Read more here.

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