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Fathers and Families® improves the lives of children and strengthens society by protecting the child’s right to the love and care of both parents after separation or divorce. We seek better lives for children through family court reform that establishes equal rights and responsibilities for fathers and mothers.
 

Our Issues/What We're Doing

Fathers and Families promotes an ambitious legislative agenda and has helped pass family court reform legislation in over two dozen states. Click the tabs to view information about Fathers and Families’ current and recent legislative projects. To learn more about our legislative and other achievements, click here.

Tragically, after divorce or separation, one parent is often driven to the margins of his or her children's lives. Fathers and Families' central mission is to protect children’s right to the love and care of both parents. To help accomplish this, we:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Fathers and Families believes that children of divorce or separation need to be supported both emotionally and financially. We seek fair, reasonable child support guidelines and an end to rampant child support enforcement abuses. Our achievements in this area include:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Few family law cases are as heartbreaking as those involving Parental Alienation, where one parent has turned his or her children against the other parent, destroying the loving bonds the children and the target parent once enjoyed. PA is a common, well-documented phenomenon that is the subject of numerous studies and articles in peer-reviewed scholarly journals. Sadly, Fathers and Families receives thousands of heart-wrenching calls and letters from targeted parents. Both mothers and fathers can be perpetrators of Parental Alienation, but the true victims are always the children.

To help battle against Parental Alienation, Fathers and Families has:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Fathers and Families believes that alimony is sometimes appropriate, such as in cases where one spouse has significantly sacrificed his or her earning ability in order to care for children. However, family courts are rife with abuses and injustices in awarding alimony/spousal support and in dividing divorcing couples' assets.

To help protect family breadwinners and high earners, we:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Tens of thousands of men have been wrongly assigned paternity and are compelled by law to pay years of child support for children whom DNA tests have shown are not theirs. In many cases, the men have had little or no contact with the children they're required to support, and some had no idea they were "fathers" until their wages were garnished for child support. To help solve this problem, Fathers and Families:

  • Helped Introduce CA SB 375 to Help Defrauded Fathers
  • Helped Introduce CA SB 377 to Protect Minors from Paternity Fraud 
  • Helped pass AB 252 and SB 1333 to allow CA child support obligors to use DNA evidence to set aside false paternity judgments

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Fathers and Families believes that all victims of abuse deserve aid and protection from our family court system. Unfortunately, as prominent members of the Family Law Executive Committee of the State Bar of California and many family law professionals have noted, false claims of abuse are frequently and effectively used as custody maneuvers in divorces by unscrupulous attorneys and litigants. To help combat this problem, Fathers and Families:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Fathers and Families believes that all litigants should be treated fairly in family court, regardless of gender. We also oppose the adversarial nature of the family court system and support Collaborative Law and other ways to reduce unnecessary conflict and litigation. To these ends, Father and Families:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Aussie News Coverage of Child Abduction Case Blatantly Anti-Dad

May 16th, 2012 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

This case has been making waves in the Australian news media for days now (Nine MSN, 5/15/12).  The tone of outrage in the various articles and on the part of the mother and her supporters is remarkable.  What … Read the rest

MI DHS Takes Children from Undocumented Guatemalan Dad

May 16th, 2012 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

The State of Michigan will soon begin advertising for adoption three children of an undocumented Guatemalan father.  There’s been no finding of unfitness on his part, but, because he’s been deported, the state refuses to return his children to him. … Read the rest

UK Lawyer/Psychotherapist: Sanction Mothers for Violating Contact Orders

May 14th, 2012 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

Here’s British psychotherapist and former family attorney Charlotte Friedman writing in the UK version of the Huffington Post on the widely-anticipated reform of custody laws in the U.K (Huffington Post, 5/11/12).  She nails it.  That’s not surprising because … Read the rest

Divorce Attorneys See More Women Paying Child Support, Alimony

May 14th, 2012 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

According to a new poll of divorce lawyers in the U.S.,  more women are paying child support and alimony than ever before.  Read about it here (Daily Mail, 5/10/12).  Some 56% of the lawyers polled said they’d seen … Read the rest

Houston Chronicle Celebrates Mother’s Day With ‘Worst Moms Ever’

May 13th, 2012 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

Since it’s Mother’s Day, we’re not surprised to see the many tributes to mothers in both the broadcast and print media.  Indeed, we’ve seen much of that sort of thing in the days leading up to Mother’s Day, and rightly … Read the rest

Happy Mother’s Day!

May 13th, 2012 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

Today’s the day we remember and honor mothers.  Mothers and fathers are the ones we rely on to do humanity’s single most important job – raising children.  No one any time, anywhere has yet figured out a better way to … Read the rest

The New Yorker’s Take on Current State of Parenting in the U.S.

May 11th, 2012 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

The cover of the May 7 issue of The New Yorker magazine is either a landmark of some sort or wants to be.  It’s a cartoon by Chris Ware entitled “Mother’s Day” and you can see it here albeit … Read the rest

Victory in Minnesota!

May 10th, 2012 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

At the 11th hour, the Minnesota State Senate passed a bill requiring the presumption of shared parenting with minimum parenting time for each parent of 35%.  That 35% falls short of the House bill that provides for a minimum of … Read the rest

Queen Weighs in on Side of Fathers and Children

May 10th, 2012 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

Everyone else repudiated the Norgrove Report, so why not the Queen herself?  According to this article, that’s exactly what happened in the Queen’s address to Parliament yesterday (Telegraph, 5/9/12).  The Queen it seems, thinks that greater contact … Read the rest

Child Advocacy Group: ‘Culture of Secrecy’ Hinders Efforts to Reform CPS

May 9th, 2012 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

Now it’s Oklahoma’s turn to be criticized for  the secrecy of its child welfare agency when dealing with the deaths of children.  The Children’s Advocacy Institute at the University of San Diego Law School has released its ratings of states’ … Read the rest